Ummm Girl!!!

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Ok so big shout out to Shia, Ashanti's little sister for being an Aries for one and for being a BAD Bitch. When I say Bad Bitch I don't mean that in a mean way. I was recently on Necole Bitchie doing my regular blog reading and came across this picture of Shia in a tight dress with her back out. To my surprise, Shia is not as small as she looks when you see an upfront picture. I saw a few rolls coming out her dress and was thinking how that couldn't be me. I'm not hating on Shia at all. I just think self confidence can get you places. As long as you are comfortable in your own skin there is nothing people can tell you. She looked like she had a great time and showed her rolls with pride. I guess I need to take some pointers on self confidence and not being so fixed on what others may think about how I feel about myself. I'm often asked for my opinion and I can't ever come up with an answer. I guess I am afraid of being ridiculed, or judged. As a woman, I know for a fact that there have been times I saw someone with confidence and all I could do was hate. Hate on her because her attitude or her confidence was off the Richter scale in comparison to my mediocre shell of confidence. So Big UPs to Shia for not being a size 0 and presenting her confidence as "What you see is what you get!"